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How to deal with pain?
The pain which you feel cannot be cured by grieving over it;
it can only be cured by knowing the reason behind this calamity.
Once you know the reason behind your calamity, I am sure your pain will fade away and you will find peace within difficulty. In shaa Allah.
Know the reason behind your Calamity.
At the time of Hardship, It’s man’s nature to be impatient but when he [true believer] knows the reason behind the hardship. He begins to display patience.
Patience is the best remedy for every trouble, if you had patience you would not be in trouble. Because patience helps us to stay positive in difficult situation and makes our life more easy and beautiful.
If you want to make your life beautiful, learn to be patient.
Remember! if you don't learn how to be patient, the pain will continue.
Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said; ...Nobody can be given a blessing better and greater than patience."
[Sahih al-Bukhari 1469]
What is the reason behind the Calamity ?
The answer is very simple and easy, Test. A test from Allah SWT, because the life of this world nothing but a Test.
Why does Allah test us? Test to check the quality of the faith and patience in you. In this test if you pass you will win the pleasure of Allah and achieve the highest rank in Jannah.
If you fail, you are the big loser; you will lose paradise as well as pleasure of Allah SWT.
Be careful about the test of Allah SWT and
don't lose this opportunity to get closer to Allah SWT.
Click below link to know more about; what is the purpose of our life, why does Allah test us, how does Allah test us, what to do when Allah tests us.
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How to live a happy and successful life?
Mere ustad kehte theh ke khush haal zindagi ke sirf 3 usool hain.
1) Apne zindagi ke maqsad ko Janlena.
2) Apne oper aane wali musibat ki wajah ko samajlena.
3) Is musibat pe, sabar karne per, akhirat mein Allah swt ki taraf se jo umdah reward [paradise] milne wali hai us per pakka yaqeen rakha.
To Allah SWT us insaan ko dunya ke har ranj o gham se azaad kardete hain.
Aur Jo Insaan
1) Apne zindagi ke maqsad ko jaan Na saka.
2) Apne oper aane wali musibat ke wajah ko samaj Na saka.
3) Aur agar Akhirat per bhi iska Iman kamzoor raha.
To wo insaan dunya ki choti si choti takleef ko bhi bardasht kar nahi pata.
Kyunke ye naam ka musalman hai.
Naam ka musalman hoon main, Isliye pareshan hoon main.
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Patience
What is patience?
Patience is when your heart burns but you remain silent.
Patience allows you to trust Allah's plans. Patience means believing that there is a light at the end of a difficult journey. Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
Patience is a powerful tool for overcoming adversities.
Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said; ...Nobody can be given a blessing better and greater than patience."
[Sahih al-Bukhari 1469]
Whenever a true believer faces difficulties in life, he never complains about the problem, but
he happily accept the decree of Allah and
he maintain patience. For them, there is peace in this world and great success in the hereafter.
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Be patient when Allah SWT tests you.
Allah SWT said in the Quran : ...endure with patience whatever affliction befalls you... (Qur'an 31 : 17)
...show patience in hardship and adversity, and in times of distress. Such are the true believers;... (Quran 2:177)
So be patient with beautiful patience. [Quran 70 : 5]
and be patient for the sake of your Lord. [Quran 74:7]
Be patient; God is with those who are patient in hard times.
[Quran 8:46]
Whenever a true believer faces any problem, instead of complaining, he says, "Inna Lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un." [We belong to Allah and to Him we shall return]. In the Quran, Allah SWT has described these people as rightly guided persons.
Allah SWT said in the Quran :
who, when afflicted with calamity, say: "We belong to Allah and to Him we shall return." Such are the people on whom there are blessings and Mercy from Allah; and they are the ones that are rightly guided. (Quran 2 : 156 - 157)
I don't care how hard life gets, my hardship could not defeat my faith, In shaa Allah I am not losing my faith in Allah.
O Allah, I will remain patient in order to please you, even though my sorrow kills me, I will still stand with patience. It's enough for me that you're pleased.
...And Allah‘s pleasure is above all. That is the supreme success. [Quran 9:72]
Say. Surely my prayer and my sacrifice and my life and my death are (all) for Allah, the Lord of the worlds; (Qur'an 6 : 162)
Reward of Patience - Paradise
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Patience is (becoming) only at the first (stroke) of grief.
Narrated Anas:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "The real patience is at the first stroke of a calamity."
[Sahih al-Bukhari 1302]
Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
The Prophet (ﷺ) passed by a woman who was crying over a grave and said, "Fear Allah and be patient." She said, "Away from me! My calamity has not befallen you and you are not aware of it." The woman was later told that it was the Prophet (ﷺ) (who had advised her). She came to his door where she found no doorkeeper. She said, "(I am sorry) I did not know you." Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Patience is (becoming) only at the first (stroke) of grief".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
[Riyad as-Salihin 31]
It was narrated from Abu Umamah that the Prophet (ﷺ) said:
“Allah says: ‘O son of Adam! If you are patient and seek reward at the moment of first shock, I will not approve of any reward for you less than Paradise.’”
[Sunan Ibn Majah 1597]
An opportunity is like a biscuit dipped in tea... a little delay and it's gone.
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It is difficult to be patient, but easy for True believer.
At the time of the calamity, it is very difficult to be patient, but it is easy for a true believer.
Because he knows the purpose of our life and the reason behind the trials. He takes the trial as an opportunity to win the pleasure of Allah and achieve the highest rank in paradise.
Those who endure in the face of adversity will definitely live a happy and enjoyable life in this world and also have great success in the hereafter. But those who are impatient in the face of adversity will definitely have a painful life in this world and face severe punishment in the hereafter.
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