Secret of happy and successful life    

How to deal with pain?

The pain which you feel cannot be cured by grieving over it; it can only be cured by knowing the reason behind this calamity. Once you know the reason behind your calamity, I am sure your pain will fade away and you will find peace within difficulty. In shaa Allah.


Know the reason behind your Calamity.


At the time of Hardship, It’s man’s nature to be impatient but when he [true believer] knows the reason behind the hardship. He begins to display patience. Patience is the best remedy for every trouble, if you had patience you would not be in trouble. Because patience helps us to stay positive in difficult situation and makes our life more easy and beautiful. If you want to make your life beautiful, learn to be patient. Remember! if you don't learn how to be patient, the pain will continue.


For this, Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said; ...Nobody can be given a blessing better and greater than patience." [Sahih al-Bukhari 1469]


What is the reason behind the Calamity ?


The answer is very simple and easy, Test. A test from Allah SWT, because the life of this world nothing but a Test.


Why does Allah test us? Test to check the quality of the faith and patience in you. In this test if you pass you will win the pleasure of Allah and achieve the highest rank in Jannah. If you fail, you are the big loser; you will lose paradise as well as pleasure of Allah SWT. Be careful about the test of Allah SWT and don't lose this opportunity to get closer to Allah SWT.


Click below link to know more about; what is the purpose of our life, why does Allah test us, how does Allah test us, what to do when Allah tests us.







How to live a happy and successful life?

Mere ustad kehte theh ke khush haal zindagi ke sirf 3 usool hain.


1) Apne zindagi ke maqsad ko Janlena.

2) Apne oper aane wali musibat ki wajah ko samajlena.

3) Is musibat pe, sabar karne per, akhirat mein Allah swt ki taraf se jo umdah reward [paradise] milne wali hai us per pakka yaqeen rakha.


To Allah SWT us insaan ko dunya ke har ranj o gham se azaad kardete hain.


Aur Jo Insaan


1) Apne zindagi ke maqsad ko jaan Na saka.

2) Apne oper aane wali musibat ke wajah ko samaj Na saka.

3) Aur agar Akhirat per bhi iska Iman kamzoor raha.

To wo insaan dunya ki choti si choti takleef ko bhi bardasht kar nahi pata.


Kyunke ye naam ka musalman hai. Naam ka musalman hoon main, Isliye pareshan hoon main.


There are 4 tablets to end every grief.

1) Know the purpose of life and reason behind this calamity.

2) Keep strong faith in the fate.

3) Learn to be patient.

4] Recognizing and coping with negative emotions for peaceful life.


Tablet - 1

Know the purpose of life and reason behind your calamity.


If you are facing poverty, ailment, or any loss, don't despair. Just try to understand what is the reason behind this calamity. Once you know the purpose of life and reason behind your calamity. I am sure your pain will fade away and you will find peace within difficulty. In shaa Allah.


Tablet - 2

Keep strong faith in the fate.


Fear no one but Allah, and do not put your hope in anyone except Allah. Because Allah alone is the giver of benefit and harm.


Ibn 'Abbas narrated: "I was behind the Prophet(s.a.w) one day when he said: 'O boy! I will teach you a statement: Be mindful of Allah and He will protect you. Be mindful of Allah and you will find Him before you. When you ask, ask Allah, and when you seek aid, seek Allah's aid. Know that if the entire creation were to gather together to do something to benefit you- you would never get any benefit except that Allah had written for you. And if they were to gather to do something to harm you- you would never be harmed except that Allah had written for you. The pens are lifted and the pages are dried.'" [Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2516]


If you are a true believer, this one hadith is enough to kill your hope and fear in anyone other than Allah. Alhamdulillah, this is a life changing hadith.



Tablet - 3

Learn to be patient because patience reduces stress and enjoy better mental health.


Patience is the best remedy for every trouble, if you had patience you would not be in trouble. Because patience helps us to stay positive in difficult situation and makes our life more easy and beautiful. If you want to make your life beautiful, learn to be patient. Remember! if you don't learn how to be patient, the pain will continue.


For this, Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said; ...Nobody can be given a blessing better and greater than patience." [Sahih al-Bukhari 1469]


Those who endure in the face of adversity will definitely live a happy and enjoyable life in this world and also have great success in the hereafter.



Tablet - 4

Recognizing and coping with negative emotions for peaceful life.


These days most of the people suffer from negative emotions; these negative emotions only have one purpose: to destroy you. Every day, every minute in your life, negative emotions attack on you, so prepare yourself to handle them; otherwise, you lose your peace. Remember, the mind is a battlefield of negative emotions; you must win the battle every day.


The negative emotions such as - bad character, mental fear, inferiority complex, negative feelings etc.


These emotions completely destroy and ruin our life. We can't live a happy and peaceful life until we recognize and expel them from our heart and mind.


So my brothers and sisters in Islam, please check these negative emotions and cure it with Quran and Hadith. One sure way to achieve real happiness and inner peace. In shaa Allah.






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faith missing The only one way to check these negative attitudes and enhance the positive attitudes is through Quran and Hadith.;One sure way to achieve real happiness and inner peace, In shaa Allah.


Calamities : Calamities create an enormous amount of stress depression,


Bad Character : Like : Anger, Envy, Suspicion, Greedy etc. A man of bad character punishes his own soul.


Mental Fear : Once you start fearing, start of dying. Where there’s Faith, There’s No way to FEAR.


Inferiority Complex : Comparison is the Thief of Joy Accept your journey and Enjoy Life.


Negative Feelings : Negative feeling which causes you to be miserable and sad. Resolve your inner conflict for peaceful life. Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace.


Don't let the silly little things steal your happiness.








Indeed, if you were to know ˹your fate˺ with certainty, ˹you would have acted differently˺. [Quran 102:5]