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How to deal with pain?
The pain which you feel cannot be cured by grieving over it;
it can only be cured by knowing the reason behind this calamity.
Once you know the reason behind your calamity, I am sure your pain will fade away and you will find peace within difficulty. In shaa Allah.
Know the reason behind your Calamity.
At the time of Hardship, It’s man’s nature to be impatient but when he [true believer] knows the reason behind the hardship. He begins to display patience.
Patience is the best remedy for every trouble, if you had patience you would not be in trouble. Because patience helps us to stay positive in difficult situation and makes our life more easy and beautiful.
If you want to make your life beautiful, learn to be patient.
Remember! if you don't learn how to be patient, the pain will continue.
For this, Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said; ...Nobody can be given a blessing better and greater than patience."
[Sahih al-Bukhari 1469]
What is the reason behind the Calamity ?
The answer is very simple and easy, Test. A test from Allah SWT, because the life of this world nothing but a Test.
Why does Allah test us? Test to check the quality of the faith and patience in you. In this test if you pass you will win the pleasure of Allah and achieve the highest rank in Jannah.
If you fail, you are the big loser; you will lose paradise as well as pleasure of Allah SWT.
Be careful about the test of Allah SWT and
don't lose this opportunity to get closer to Allah SWT.
Click below link to know more about; what is the purpose of our life, why does Allah test us, how does Allah test us, what to do when Allah tests us.
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How to live a happy and successful life?
Mere ustad kehte theh ke khush haal zindagi ke sirf 3 usool hain.
1) Apne zindagi ke maqsad ko Janlena.
2) Apne oper aane wali musibat ki wajah ko samajlena.
3) Is musibat pe, sabar karne per, akhirat mein Allah swt ki taraf se jo umdah reward [paradise] milne wali hai us per pakka yaqeen rakha.
To Allah SWT us insaan ko dunya ke har ranj o gham se azaad kardete hain.
Aur Jo Insaan
1) Apne zindagi ke maqsad ko jaan Na saka.
2) Apne oper aane wali musibat ke wajah ko samaj Na saka.
3) Aur agar Akhirat per bhi iska Iman kamzoor raha.
To wo insaan dunya ki choti si choti takleef ko bhi bardasht kar nahi pata.
Kyunke ye naam ka musalman hai.
Naam ka musalman hoon main, Isliye pareshan hoon main.
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Always give thanks to Allah
Alhamdulillah, for every blessing that Allah has given me, which I know and don't know.
Happy or sad always say Alhamdulillah, Allah SWT loves when we are grateful to him.
Make it a habit to say 'Alhamdulilah' in all situations. Giving thanks to Allah not only in times of joy, but also in times of adversity. This grateful attitude will raise you to heaven's highest level,
saying alhamdulillah is so simple but powerful.
Allah SWT said in the Quran : …and be grateful to Me (for My countless Favours on you) and never be ungrateful to Me. [Quran 2:152]
...The fact is, that the unguided human is ever ungrateful. [Quran 17:67]
...Very few from My slaves are thankful [Quran 34:13]
...My Lord! Inspire me to ˹always˺ be thankful for Your favours which You blessed me... [Quran 46:15]
It was narrated from Sinan bin Sannah Al-Aslami, the Companion of the Prophet (ﷺ), that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
“A grateful eater will have a reward like that of a patient fasting person.”
[Sunan Ibn Majah 1765]
Anas bin Malik (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Allah is pleased with His slave who says: 'Al-hamdu lillah (praise be to Allah)' when he takes a morsel of food and drinks a draught of water."
[Muslim].
[Riyad as-Salihin 1396]
It was narrated from Anas that :
the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: 'Allah does not bestow a blessing upon any slave and he says: 'Al-hamdu Lillah (praise is to Allah),' except that what he gives (the praise) is better than what he received (the blessing)."
[Sunan Ibn Majah 3805]
Best way to thank Allah in prostration.
Whenever you receive a blessing, offer a prostrated of thanks to Allah SWT.
Narrated AbuBakrah:
When anything came to the Prophet (ﷺ) which caused pleasure (or, by which he was made glad), he prostrated himself in gratitude to Allah.
[Sunan Abi Dawud 2774]
Whether prostration is for happiness or sadness, getting the Tawfiq of prostration is a great blessing of Allah.
And you cannot intend (to do anything) unless it is so willed by Allah, the Lord of all the worlds. [Quran 81:29]
Mu'adh b. Jabal reported that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) caught his hand and said:
By Allah, I love you, Mu'adh. I give some instruction to you. Never leave to recite this supplication after every (prescribed) prayer: "O Allah, help me in remembering You, in giving You thanks, and worshipping You well."
Mu'adh willed this supplication to the narrator al-Sunabihi and al-Sunabihi to 'Abu Abd al-Rahman.
[Sunan Abi Dawud 1522]
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Say thank you Allah, even in the worst situation.
Alhamdulillah Ala Kulli Haal
[All praise is for Allah, in all conditions].
The Prophet Muhammad said this when something happened that displeased him.
It is a reminder to be grateful to Allah in all circumstances and to be patient with what Allah has decreed for you.
I am sure that it happened for a reason.
Of course
true believers did not become sad in bad situations because they knew there is a khair in every situation.
Be a man who can bear hardship, loss of wealth, and illness and always say, "Alhamdulillah ala kulli haal".
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Always praised Allah in times of ease and adversity.
Ibn Abbas reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The first to be called to Paradise are those who always praised Allah in times of prosperity and adversity.”
[al-Mu’jam al-Kabīr lil-Ṭabarānī 12345]
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